1 Way You Can Be Self-Confident & Kind To Others At The Same Time

 

 

Do you ever come across someone who's...like...
jaw-dropping gorgeous? A fellow girl, maybe a friend, maybe someone you don't know well, who just has lovely looks?
Of course, you're first thought is most likely how you consider her really attractive, pretty, beautiful, etc, right?
And all that is good. Its kind to think in positive ways of others.
The bad thing that happens, all too often, though, while admiring someone else's God-given gifts, is to then deem our own attractiveness, aka worth, below that person's.
Which, chica, is totally not what should happen. That's basically like just saying because the dolphin is a beautiful mammal, any other mammal on earth isn't in other ways because of the unique awesomeness of (the, NEEDLESS TO SAY, AMAZING, AMAZING!!) dolphins.
Let me tell you something:
THAT TRAIN OF THOUGHT IS SILLY, GIRLY.
Don't think I don't know how you feel-I understand, more than most anyone does probably. For example: my automatic reaction to seeing a good selfie of a friend on Insta or being with one of my lovely friends in person, is to think, why can't I just be more cute like her?
No matter what you think, doing that is a favor for no one when you think of yourself like that; thinking someone is worth more than yourself isn't all that flattering for her, or yourself.
Its  sounds cliché, maybe-but you gotta embrace self-confidence in yourself, girl. You have to see the features that make you shine in your own way-maybe its your sparkling eyes, your perfect nose, your personality, crazy-awesome talents...yeah, there are a million and one ways you can recognize how special you really are and can be if you just let yourself.
So, yesh. That girl you think is gorgeous, IS. No doubt. But that doesn't mean you're not in consequence.
Because, in this beautifully bright world:
THERE'S MORE THAN ONE GORGEOUS.
MORE THAN ONE CUTE.
MORE THAN A SINGLE TYPE OF ATTRACTIVE.
The key is finding your personality, the true beautiful you, is seeing how God made you beautiful, & recognizing what's totally fab about yourself.
God made people all around us beautiful, cute and amazing; and while He was at it, He certainly didn't neglect you, either. He gifted you with amazing beauty: and God wants you to be aware of it. Thinking someone else is cute or attractive-that is no probemo! But in so doing, never forget that you're just as beautiful and worthy of self-love and respect, chica.
YOU'RE AMAZING.
 
XXX & lots of love,
Veroni